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[antonietes]

I discovered you!!!! hahha

My dear Shaolin, yes we have had mmmmm. I've noticed the forum doesn't allow us to use that great word.
It would be great to apply your kind advices, but it's difficult if he doesn't call!! haha
We met last week because I was going to work out of the city this weekend, we said goodbye and it was a little strange... after two days I sent him a sms, but he doesn't say a word.. (and you know? For a woman in love 4 days of silence – and who knows when he's gonna call!- after sending a sms is bufffff. In the begging, when we met he once told me that he is slow about commitment... and I don't know but what is true is that he has always been sloooooow but constant... So I thought, why don't you ask directly what does he want from me??!
So that's the question: What does he want from me?
What do you think my dear?
Any other advice?...

[Shaolin]

Hi!
i'm sorry for the delay!
Do you think he had a bad separation recently ?
I see the chariot looking at two ****, the one of devil and the one of papesse.
Do you think it's just a s.e.x story for him ?
Maybe to be successfull with you give him more confidence.
But the end of the question finish with the ermite.
So i feel a end of loneliness.
Do you think you're really in love ?
You don't think you just enjoy to please him and is not the man who could give you what you need ?

[antonietes]

Shaolinnnnnn! I really like him! In fact this not knowing what's in his head is what make me suffer. First you meet someone, you like him.... and then, one day, another day that transforms (sometimes) in something SPECIAL (for me it is, it happened)... at that point you need to know if it's SPECIAL for the other (that's my mental mess...) and then when both say "Yes, to me this is special and I would like to discover what can grow between you and me, because you started to touch something inside of me..." (well the words can be others.. hahha) And to verbalize that provides an agreement, and that agreement implies a START.
Anyway, no doubt about my feelings, I asure you.

About your question about the chariot, he is very very reserved but once, at the beggining he told me that once he was meeting with a girl he liked a lot, he had to travel (the chariot?), and when he came back she was with another guy. He told me that after that he learnt to protect himself. Two travels... two girls, one in the past (devil) one in the present (papesse... aparently a good one, that could be me... but I'm not a good one aparently but in REALITY)
Do you think that he is proving this? That maybe he thinks that time (hermit) has the answer about if this is a good choice, that is secure to involve into a relationship (emperor)? And that now (temperance) he wants to go slooooowwwww but constant?
He allready called me to meet one of these days, he was really nice on the phone....

What do you think,
my dear Shaolin?

[Shaolin]

Hi !
I think as we saw on the last reading and we can see on this reading it's him who decide.
During this waiting, i think you maybe need to organize your thought XV + II + VII
If there are allready he sun and the lover in the two readings, it's maybe just a question of time.
You can be more cool, less impatient, less emotionally, wise, confident.
He's maybe healing his scar of the last separation with you.
You know that the girlfriend, his in the same time the lover and s.e.x partner, the mum and the friend.
These cards XV II VII make me think that he look at you as a mum and a s.e.x partner. (you're older than him?)
It's the dimension of the friends who give me a problem, because the death is againt it (the sun).
Maybe you're represent by tempérance too.
He's maybe angry after this girl.
And he want to stay alone. empereur looking at the ermite.
But if he look at you as a wise woman without emotions, who can control her thoughts, he will maybe realize the benefit you gave him, in helping him to heal the scare.
What do you think about it ?

In the same time, the first was maybe more simple, touch each other tenderly outside the bad rrrhalala this mistake again!! the bed (i like the bed).
Your thoughts are the problem. Open you arms before thinking if you can.
It can be a sign of tenderness.
And you will see his reaction.
The tendernes should not be only the sign of the s.e.x, but sign of love too.

[antonietes]

My dear, Shaolin... yes I'm older than him... and ... we've never been with friends... always we meet alone... He talks to me about his friends, and I also talk about my friends... but we never shared a beer!!! That's also a thing that makes me feel insecure... buffff.... sometimes I really think I should give up... because this not talking, not knowing what's going on, this sloooow on the calls, tha dates... make me feel like maybe I'm a toy...
And I'm afraid to talk because maybe what I should do is wait him to be more natural... that maybe now, to say something now is delicate... I don't know...

[Shaolin]

hi,
in fact for the first reading, there is the moon and the devil which are very animal.
The papesse give the advice to meditate about the tentation of the devil.
And i think you will understand the situation VII.

You will understand what happened between you and him.
And it's what you doing now!

I think you will make choice for you

[antonietes]

Hello!!!
How are you? I would love you to explain something about you... to ask something to the cards and let me say something! I'm curious... how old are you? Where are you from? How did you get in the camoin tarot view?....
Well...
My dear Shaolin... This guy... I don't understand him... so I've decided to talk to him and say everything and see how he reacts... what he says and if we decide something!
I will explain you.....

A big kiss for you!!

[Shaolin]

Hi!
i'm fine thank you !
you can ask questions if you want, all depend what they are.

I think that i've been too much influenced by you enthousiasm !
That made us lost time !

I think you know allready the answer.
Solutions are to think about you and don't fall in the trap of the devil.

[antonietes]

Shaolin!!!! I realized last day what's going on!!!! I suspected that but... now I know because I've seen! and I really percieved!! He wants to meet me 'cause he likes me and there's something under the surface but he's afraid!! He doesn't know how does it work, and he should feel that I'm a woman and he feels like a child trying not to look like that in front of me... Now I don't know if the best option is to talk... I was really decided to talk... but now I think that if I do he would feel like I'm demanding a "who knows what"...uh uh... and that conversation can put presure on him... and the only thing I want is him to be relax... not mental... because I really think that at the moment he stops thinking "what's suposed to do, to react, what is better, is a good option to go on this relationship....etc" every thing will go RIGHT! and we will ENJOY IT! BOTH! Because now I really think that he's not enjoing... he's tensed....because I think that as a man he thinks that it's his responsability, that as a man he's the one who has to drive the situation... but he doesn't realize that he has not to do anything!!! Just be!... but maybe I'm wrong and to talk is the key!.....

I'm going to ask the cards what should I do to make him loose his fear, his wall, his blokade?

[Shaolin]

Hi!
moon and judgement show the evolution of a couple from the animal side to the family side.
In the same time in the moon and the jugment there are a reference to the fact of asking.
And thanks to that, don't look after the concept of love and the couple (that doesn't cause problem in itself) but face each other.
Imperatrice and batelleur should face each other.
There is again the trap of the devil. Mental trap, be carefull.
Relax about your thoughts, don't think about it, let the time run.
If you feel not confident to show yourself like someone demanding, follow the example of justice, in reacting just after his decision to make a move.
There is again the ermite, it seem to be a lot of waiting in this question.
Maybe he's not able yet to have a serious relationship, and he need to change of consciousness about the concept to be victorious (at work instead with women).
Maybe he would like to be a cazanova or don juan, but he have to realize that you're making a good team ... ?