Hello Teddy,
If I may, I'd like to give it a go (but I am not a student of the school although an avid reader of the Jodorowsky-Camoin book).
Past: reversed
may suggest that in the past you felt a lack of Honour, in the sense of a lack in your ability to respond to your destiny. So the solution was
Which suggest finding someone with whom have companionship. A little bit like a parter in crime.
Present:
would suggest to me that you are seeking to feel complete and that this person might well help you with this. Also, the Hermit would suggest that you are going through some serious soul searching.
Future:
means "harmony through conflict", or in this case, a lack thereof because you lack the courage to really have an open and possibly confrontational conversation with - I assume - this man. Which gets us to the solution: The Moon, which really here stands for Courage.
So in a summary, my reading is that you may not have got into this relationship for the best reasons, but it makes you feel complete and also forces you to really think about who you really are and want. Which you could talk to him about and might reach harmony - or might achieve the opposite. So you are bit apprehensive, or outright scared.
Therefore, you don't do it. The solution is: muster your courage and do it.
These were my 5cents.
Good luck
E.