Dear Dominique,
First of all thanks for your kind reply... I'm so upset I really need somebody that helps me in looking into things a bit more because I feel a strong sorrow.
Yes, he has tied up himself to another woman. I don't know her personally but he told me she's jelous of me. I'm his former girlfriend. He asked me to marry him and I refused because I felt blocked inside for several reasons despite my deep love for him. From that point on his reaction was to throw me out of his flat... we still kept in contact but he soon found her at work and in a very short time they ended up living together. After only one month she wanted to settle down with him buying a house. I fear she's so cunning... I fear she wants to take advantage on him but I can't help it.
I met him a couple of weeks ago ( the first time in five months) and he looked touch by the meeting... later we spoke on the phone and he was very much distant. He told me he would like to see me but she's jelous so it's too complex. He's been hurting me a lot these months. He used to love me and adore me like a goddess and after he met her he's changed his character completely... I 'm so shocked to see him like that. I wonder if he'll ever realize what he's doing after ten years together.
So I wonder if I should wait for him any longer. (As you could see I have another post on marriage... I'll write there too..to be continued). Thanks for your interest, hope you can help me some more.
take care, jasmine