Camoin Tarot Forum

[Fiorella_mcfly]

Hello!!
I'm here because I'm really confused.. I'm in love whit my brother's best friend since 2010.. there' s something more than a good friendship between us...
what should I do? do I have to forget him at all? Do I have to see him only like a friend?... What does he feels? Does he care about me?

[Dominique]

Dear Fiorella,
May I invite you to do another spread with ONE question only, regarding the potential "relationship" with him.
The actual spread is a reflection of your inner confusion and the many questions that are in contradiction so I could only give you a biased interpretation.
In the meantime I suggest that you try to answer your questions with your heart:

what should I do? ---> Do you have an idea of what you should do? Do you have an "action" plan in mind? like writing to him ?

do I have to forget him at all? --> Do you mean to forget having a closer relationship?

Do I have to see him only like a friend?... --------> What do you share together? To you spend time doing things like friends do?

What does he feels? Does he care about me? ----> Usually, a man who cares for a woman gives her signs like small attentions, compliments, offers to go out for drinks... Does he have that kind of behaviour towards you?

I hope this will help you see clearer and find THE question laying behind all this... I will then be happy to do the interpretation for you;

Kind Regards
Dominique

[Fiorella_mcfly]

Hi Dominique, you have been so kind...thank you so much..


1)well... I haven't got a plan in mind, I used to improvise at the moment... I'm only asking HELP because I don't know what's in his mind..
I think there's more than a simple friendship between us only because there a lot of hugs and jealousy

2) yes, that's exactly what I mean... but I didn't be able to do it, in the past, because he's my borther's best friend and he's in a close contact with my family every day..

3) yes...he gives me a lot of attentions... and yes, he asked me to go to the disco with some friends this summer, he asked me to go to Maroon 5's concert (I'm looking forward to it *.*) ... but he's so shy so it's really rare that he asks me to go out for a drink, only me and him!!

that's my final question:
What does he feel for me?
I think that with this I'll know what to do!!...
thank you again!!

[Dominique]

Dear Fiorella,
Much more clear now
Does he have feelings for you.. definitely YES... the LOVERS card is in the upright position... but...
but the Emperor (the man who could act upon his feelings) turns his back to them... but ...at the present time we have Le Mat in he reversed position..; meening that instead of going towards a new start he hesitates...and the solution to his hesitation is La Maison Dieu, which for me means continuing sharing joy and fun together.

It seems to me that he sees you as a very wise and secretive lady and maybe this is also why he has a blockage to move forward (all the cards with movment are reversed)? It looks as if he has decided to wait (the Hanged man) and see what destiny has prepared for both of you, trusting the "Roue de Fortune".

Give time to this relationship. He has to learn to trust you, make sure you tell him how much you enjoy the things you share together, this will give him confidence.
How old is he? What do you know about his previous relationships? This could help you understand better his hesitation...

I hope this helps!
All the best
Dominique

[Fiorella_mcfly]

Hi Dominique!!
you can not imagine how much you've been of help!!
thank u so much ...
now I know what to do!!.. I hope that it will help me to have a clear vision of what he feels and what's his "problem"!!
thanks again!!