Hi:
There is this guy "R" we know each other only by internet. We have a lot of chemistry and we both know we like to talk with each other.
In the beginning he was very demonstrative towards me cause he clicked with me immediately but I was aloof and distant. Now things have changed and I am starting to have feelings for him but he seems distant now.
He is the kind of person that's profound, romantic and easily to get hurt. My intuition says that he now have the conclusion that Im unattainable and cold and that im not really interested. I think deep down he thinks he don't deserve me either, so he acts in a pessimistic way, and he already have negative conclusions.
Many times he tried to let me know about his feelings for me but I really never respond in a clear way. Sometimes misunderstandings or simply bad communication. I was always making him uncertain about myself as a strategy, I prefer to go slowly and I prefer to making him see me a bit aloof, but inside Im melting down.
Now he take long periods without chatting with me. I dont like that. I told him before that I like very much chatting with him. So Im confused. Should I call him and be frankly about my feelings, or just wait and remain silent until he takes the next step? Why is he taking long periods without communicating?
Are there things Im not aware of? and will be better forget him? What is he really feeling? What should I do? How to Hook Him Up?
This is my point of view, but maybe Im totally wrong. I want to know what the tarot have to tell me.
Thank you!